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THE GROOM’S SHOCK UPON LEARNING THAT HIS GIRLFRIEND WAS A MAN: “I WAS GOING TO MARRY WITHOUT KNOWING THE TRUTH”
In a case that has caused a stir on social media and generated intense debates about gender identity, the young man Andrés R. experienced an unexpected situation when he discovered, just a few days before his wedding, that his fiancée, with whom he had been in a relationship for over a year, was biologically a man.
It all started as a conventional love story. Andrés, 32 years old, met someone he thought was “Daniela” on a dating app. He recounted that “she” was affectionate, reserved, and always avoided deep intimate situations, explaining it as part of her religious values. Confident and in love, Andrés respected those decisions.
The couple formalized their engagement after eight months of dating. The preparations for the wedding were progressing smoothly until a domestic argument between the alleged Daniela and a distant cousin revealed the secret that would change everything.
“The cousin shouted, ‘Enough with the lies, tell him you’re a man!’” Andrés told a local media outlet. At first, he thought it was an offensive insult, but when he confronted his fiancée, she broke down in tears and confessed, “My real name is David. I was born a man, but I have identified as a woman for over a decade.”
The news left Andrés in shock. “I felt like my world was collapsing. Not only because of the fact itself, but because of the lie that had been maintained for so long. I felt betrayed. I was going to marry without knowing the truth,” he confessed.
The revelation quickly went viral, with divided opinions. Some users defended Daniela/David’s right to live their identity without prejudice, while others harshly criticized the concealment.
Gender specialists emphasize the importance of informed consent in any relationship. “Every trans person deserves respect, but they must also understand that hiding something so fundamental can deeply hurt the other person. Truth is key to healthy relationships,” said psychologist Ángela Monroy.
For his part, David stated that he never intended to deceive, but he feared being rejected. “I was in love with Andrés and thought that if I told him the truth, he would leave me. Today I understand that I should have been honest from the beginning.”
Finally, the wedding was canceled. Andrés has sought psychological help to cope with the emotional impact, while David has received both expressions of support and harsh criticism.
The case once again opens the conversation about identity, love, truth, and mutual respect. In a world where labels are changing, stories like this remind us that transparency remains the fundamental pillar in any human relationship.